McAvennie&Cottee 2:22 Fri Feb 12
Can't get over my ex but she's stopping me seeing my boy!
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I split up with my ex missus in June last year. She got another fella straight away but then she finished with him and she kept telling me we would get back together and we spent a few nights together, but then in September she cut all contact and by all accounts she's in a happy relationship with a new fella. We've got a four year old son together who's autistic and she won't speak to me or see me. She only let's me see my boy once a week every Sunday and it's just not enough. I know I've been a pussy but I'm still in love with her and I'm pining for her back but i really need to go down the legal route now to gain more access to my son. I'm missing out on so much and she won't tell me a thing. It really cut me up when we split and I did actually take an overdose which I know was selfish but I was in a mess. It's stopping me from moving on with another woman. Any advice people?
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Mike Oxsaw
1:45 Sat Feb 13
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Nurse Ratched 1:10 Sat Feb 13
Even in the context of "Excuse me, local, rural, unwashed Indian street food vendor I've met while enjoying a traditional gap-year, unaccompanied, on the other side of the world, What meat is in this curry?"?
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united we stand
1:13 Sat Feb 13
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Mike Oxsaw 1:09 Sat Feb 13
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Thank you....well said sir
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Nurse Ratched
1:10 Sat Feb 13
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The word 'pussy', used in ANY context, makes me heave.
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Mike Oxsaw
1:09 Sat Feb 13
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No need for a link
If she's not good enough for the original poster, she's not good enough for me.
Or any real West Ham still on this thread. We stick together. Especially after a particularly productive spit-roast
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Darby_
11:41 Sat Feb 13
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Still no link here I see.
The first step to putting her behind you is posting some revenge porn on the net.
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Ronald_antly
11:39 Sat Feb 13
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Because it isn't JUST a football forum, is it.
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hub hub hub hub
11:22 Sat Feb 13
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Why the fuck do so many people bring their shit like this to a football forum ffs. Surely this is citizens advice ?
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Mike Oxsaw
8:57 Sat Feb 13
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Although I'd agree with everything Mirkwood has said, you need to be aware at all times if you visit Thailand that what for you is "having a good time", for them is strictly business. Very strictly. Your emotional state and their bank balance are, to many, just tools of the trade, there to be used as required.
Read the contents as listed on the tin. Decide on the recipe that best meets your taste and only add enhancements you know & trust.
And then fuck the arse off everything you can for a couple of weeks.
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Mirkwood
8:13 Sat Feb 13
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Take a step back.
You cant fix this right now. The more effort you put into resolving it the more you will damage yourself.
Book some time off work. Go to Thailand and have a good time. Dont contact your ex and wait for her to contact you. (She will for money).
Better to speak on your terms when you are feeling better.
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Moncurs Putting Iron
7:21 Sat Feb 13
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Focus on your Lad and be polite and civil but not affectionate with your Ex.
I know that is hard but at this time maybe one is adversely affecting the other?
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OneAll
7:14 Sat Feb 13
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Women are evil creatures I'm in a similar boat mate , makes ya feel proper suicidal all you can do is stay strong it's the only option
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yngwies Cat
3:12 Sat Feb 13
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Sorry mate, having read all that didn't help. You guys need to somehow talk,
Think about your kid.... Both of you
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yngwies Cat
3:07 Sat Feb 13
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Posting on here ain't the answer.
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:^)
2:45 Sat Feb 13
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What? To 'your mind' means fuck all as I have just set you straight on how your 'mind' is wrong using a bullshit statement you clearly thought was true.
You might as well be talking about unicorns, dragons, werewolves and zombies, if you're going to bang on about some metaphorical affairs of the heart.
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Dapablo
2:22 Sat Feb 13
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I said "to my mind" with a reason maybe just possibly perhaps, affairs of the heart aren't really scientific yet are they?
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:^)
1:45 Sat Feb 13
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*7 years, and it's wrong anyway. Some cells are never replaced.
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Dapablo
1:42 Sat Feb 13
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2 years to change every cell in your body, seems to be the way of it to my mind.
Down the gym sounds a cool idea, self worth is what you need.
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bruuuno
10:46 Fri Feb 12
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Funny you say that son, son as I have just downloaded the four most recent episodes and shall watch them after I've finished this muckout
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Son of Anarchy
10:19 Fri Feb 12
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The X files should remain firmly closed
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goose
4:50 Fri Feb 12
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focus on yourself.............. sounds like you have some time on your hands so get down the gym and get in shape.
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ILOVEPAOLODICANIO
4:36 Fri Feb 12
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Sounds like shit.
Id try and move on from her and just see your kid when yuo do and make the most of it. You'll always be there for him. GOod luck.
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